Lola’s Final Resting Place

The “book” is Lola’s urn. Every single word/phrase on it embodies all that is Lola. A week before we left for George Mark Lola received a package from our friends in NYC that contained a hot pink/black outfit complete with a tutu, feather boa, beads and sunglasses. While she wasn’t able to wear the outfit, I used it all when I made this shadow box to protect her urn. I know without a doubt that she LOVES it.

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Carve my name in a tree

The staff at Lola’s previous school (Edna Hill Middle School in Brentwood, CA) carved her name in the tree next to her friend Megan’s bench

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Throw a drink in someone’s face

Thank you Cyndi and Connie ❤

As you can see, Lola never wanted to hurt a single soul but since it was on #LolasBucketList, she did it anyway (sorta =))!!!

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Lola’s Celebration of Life

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Lola’s Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, September 8th (gotta love these eights!!!) from 1:30p – 4:30p at Cordova Community Center in Rancho Cordova, CA.

Address: 2197 Chase Dr., Rancho Cordova, CA

For those of you who will be flying in, Sacramento International will be your airport (Oakland and/or San Fran is about an hour and a half southwest).

This will be a potluck of all of Lauren’s favorite things and my amazing friend Erin will be coordinating. Below is the list. Please email or call Erin so she can mark stuff off as needed.
Email: mchugh_erin@msn.com
Cell: 925-487-7844

Potluck Food List
Chicken taquitos w/ guacamole
Potstickers w/ chowmein
Cantaloupe
Honey dew melon
Caesar Salad
Grilled shrimp
Granny Smith apples
Chocolate pudding cups
Reese’s sticks
Lasagna
Grapes
Turkey/mayo/avocado sandwiches
Santa Cruz cherry lemonade
Taco Bell Doritos Tacos & bean burritos (w sour cream)

I’d like to thank everyone for all of your messages – I’ve tried over the last few days to read them all.

#LOVELIKELOLA # STAYSTRONG

– Lola’s mom ❤

Always Love Like Lola

Lola’s eternal soul left this physical world on 8/8 at 8am – which we believe was her way of telling us that she will love us for eternity or infinity. She told me several times that she was not scared and that she was excited to start this next journey, knowing she would be greeted by Megan and Papa Perry and Mimi. While we are incredibly sad (death only sucks for the living), we can feel her joy at being able to dance and run, finally cancer free. She’s already sent us many signs that she will be by our side until we meet again.

She did not want a traditional funeral. We had a very small visitation for a few close friends and our immediate family at George Mark. She was, however, very specific about her Celebration of Life. I don’t have a date or venue yet, but I will post something as soon as I do.

Please remember that Lola would not want us to be sad. She was more worried about us than herself and we have to carry on, making sure that her legacy also lives on, in us.

As you go about your day, remember to always #LOVELIKELOLA

More to come
Xoxo
Peace and Love
– Lola’s mom ❤

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